Buying A Nice Watch To Attract Women

Posted under Uncategorized by admin on Saturday 20 December 2008 at 9:39 pm

Dressing well will definitely help you when it comes to attracting the ladies. Not only does it give you extra confidence and that extra spring in your step, you just flat out look better and ‘richer’ to them (here’s a complete guide to dressing well)

One way to present yourself as ‘wealthy’ is to have a nice watch. Am I saying to go out and buy a $20k rolex if you only make $70k a year? Heck, no. In fact, there’s a big difference between a ‘nice’ watch and an ‘expensive’ watch.

Women are very brand oriented. You may have some ten year-old Porsche that barely works, but you’re still cool because you drive a Porsche even if that car is now worth less than a Honda Accord. Do you like Lacoste shirts? Well, you can buy knockoffs for $20 and still get the same credibility from the ladies.

The same works with watches…in a different way. See, no one is going to look at the watch and see what brand is on there in little type. Girls are just impressed by how shiny and glowy it looks. It’s tough to fake gold, but there are tons of watches out there for $200-$300 that look like they cost $5k. Basically, they have a bunch of glass studs on them that look like diamonds and girls can’t tell the difference.

It’s fitting that diamonds are considered a girl’s best friend because, quite frankly, girls can’t distinguish diamonds from shiny glass that looks like a diamond.

If you are out there to buy a nice watch, don’t buy some $4k Cartier watch that looks nice but isn’t stunning. Buy some $300 studded out, shiny watch that looks like it costs $10k.

How To Date A Stripper

Posted under Uncategorized by admin on Wednesday 10 December 2008 at 8:11 pm

When most guys go to the strip club, they think the strippers there are ‘untouchable,’ like some sort of special type of woman. They think the only way to get a stripper to be with them is to give them large sums of money. The truth is strippers are great to date. They’re hot, fairly easy, and generally not looking for much commitment.

The MOST important thing you have to do is separate yourself from the other guys. You can’t be your average chump that goes in there, wallet ready to get lap dances.

To begin with, you need to ‘neg’ the stripper, meaning basically flirt with her by teasing her. You MUST act like you think you are good enough for the stripper to want to date outside the strip club. Basically, you shouldn’t want to pay her to go out on a date with you. IF anything, she should pay you to go out on a date with her. You need to act like you can get girls like her all the time, so it’s a matter of if she’s good enough for you.

By ‘negging’ her, you send this message in a playful matter. For example, let’s say a stripper has some like schoolgirl outfit on. When you approach her (again, better to approach her than she approach you because it shows confidence), you should say something like “School girl outfit huh? That’s real original.”

Stripper: Haha, I know a lot of girls wear it, but I think it’s cool.

You: Yeah, I mean, it’s ok in all in theory, it’s just that most of the girls that wear it are kinda nuts. Last girl I talked to wearing a schoolgirl outfit was some 40 year-old that believed she had a 12 year-old girl’s spirit trapped in her. You’re not like nuts like that are you?

As you can see, you are starting a conversation with her that’s funny, but at the same time, making it seem like she is the one that needs to validate herself to you.

The WORST thing to do is to go to a stripper and talk about how pretty she is, how you could never be able to date a girl like her, how you’ll give her money just to go shopping with you, etc. Strippers HATE that. They don’t respect those sorts of guys. They see it all the time and it grosses them out.

Strippers in general love a little good-natured abuse. Not like crazy ex-boyfriend domestic violence abuse (though sadly that does happen a lot), more along the lines of negging and having her hair-pulled/ass slapped during sex type abuse.

Anyways, I digress. After talking to the stripper, negging her and stuff, you’ll at some point need to get the stripper’s number. This in of itself is not that hard. The issue though is that strippers are extremely flaky. Getting them to answer the phone, no less meet you somewhere later is incredibly difficult feat to accomplish. It is a generally more practical route to go somewhere after she gets off work.

It helps a lot if you’re a semi-regular at the strip club. If she gets to know you, she’lll be more comfortable leaving with you. You’ll also have multiple opportunities to neg her and flirt with her.

Being a semi-regular does not need to be expensive. The key is to not pay for lap dances. Tip a girl on stage- sure. In fact, tip them beter than average, like a $5-$10 instead of a few singles. But if you start getting lap dances from her, not only are you paying way too much for pretty pathetic entertainment, she’ll start viewing you as a customer more than as a potential date.

Now, buying a drink for the stripper is perfectly good and is a good way to get some flirting time in. So drinks yes, lap dances no.

Dating strippers involves a lot of variance. Once you get good at it, you’ll realize that it’s more of a matter of how flaky they are than how good your game is. Just act confident, cocky, funny, have a good time, and don’t spend too much money.

How To Get A Raise

Posted under Uncategorized by admin on Monday 1 December 2008 at 12:53 am

Thought this article was useful:

I have to start by saying that the first and best thing you can do to get a raise from your employer is to make sure you deserve one. Of course, this should go without saying. However, many employees think that simply being at their job a while is enough reason for more pay.

Most employers will disagree. Unless you are simply arguing for a cost-of-living increase, you really should provide more value to your employer if you expect more money. If you’re not doing a great job now then, start tomorrow, and do better for a while before you try to get a raise.

Okay, so you deserve a raise. But don’t expect your boss to notice this or think of it on his own. Most likely, you will have to sell him or her on the idea, so you should be fully prepared to do that. Find out what others in your position make. See if you can discover how much of a raise some of them have received in the past. In the United States, you can use the U.S. Labor Department’s Bureau Of Labor Statistics website to see what the average pay of various jobs is.

Ask for a realistic raise, based not just on national norms, but on what people in your particular company make. Always aim a little high. This lets the boss negotiate your raise down to what you really hope to get. Consider everything you want before you ask for a raise too. For example, are you also seeking benefits or a better position?

Okay, so you have decided how much you will be asking for. Now make a list of the things you have accomplished. Be ready to show how these are linked to some measurable increase in profits if possible. At least make a reasonable argument for how they should add to the company revenue. Try to be specific, and don’t lie about anything. You want to show that you are clearly valuable to the company - and that you know you are.

The timing of your request for a raise matters. Don’t ask for a raise when the boss is in a bad mood, for example. If you’ve got easy access to the supervisor who’ll make the decision, wait for a noticeable good mood, then ask to speak with her, or him. On the other hand, if you have to make and appointment, schedule a time when the boss won’t be too distracted, like late afternoon, when lunch is past and his work is caught up.

You should always know what your options are and what you are willing to do according to the response. In my working days, for example, I got what I wanted several times by threatening to quit. But perhaps this only worked because I meant what I said. You might lose a job you want to keep if you bluff. What you will say? What you will do if the boss says no? What if he offers less than you ask for? Can you wait and bring it up again later? Can you look for other employment? How about mentioning this job search to the boss?

Consider these things carefully, and be prepared if you want to get a raise.

Copyright Steve Gillman. For more Insider Secrets, go get your free “secrets” course at: http://www.TheSecretInformationSite.com