Do you pay or do you go dutch? Many guys aren’t sure what the best thing to do is. I’m going to assume in this article that you’re not so cheap that the money itself is a consideration and just getting laid is.

In general, yes, you should pay. If you don’t, girls will think you are cheap or a dick. So if you are out on a dinner date or something similar to that with a girl, you should offer to pay.

However, don’t put yourself in a situation where you have to pay A LOT for the girl. For example, don’t take a girl out for an elegent 5 course dinner before you have even slept with her. Not only are you shelling out a lot of dough, she will actually respect you less. In her mind, she’s thinking ‘why is he trying to hard to get me…he must not be good enough for me.’ And yes, in this situation, you still need to pay. You still screwed yourself over by treating her too well before she sleeps with you, but insisting on going dutch at that point pretty much torpedoes whatever chances you have left with the girl.

So, when dating girls, remember two things:

1. Don’t spend too much money on them before they sleep with you. Otherwise they wont’ respect you.

2. You still need to pay for any date you go on with them though. So don’t go on any expensive dates before you stick it in her.

Afraid your girlfriend may dump you? I don’t mean that you’re afraid if you don’t commit to/marry her, she may leave you. In that case, the power is ultimately in your court. I’m referring to getting truly dumped; the girl just doesn’t want to date you anymore. She may still want to be ‘just friends.’

Think it’s you don’t spend enough attention on her? Probably not that. Is it because you cheated on her one too many times? Probably not that either, though it’s not wise to do that if you want a healthy long-term relationship.

The number one reason guys get dumped by their girlfriends is because they start acting like sissies. At the beginning, the girl was attracted to the guy because she found him to be confident and reassuring. She was attracted to him. However, over time, the guy started to seem ‘weaker’ to her. Perhaps he got too needy or perhaps he got jealous over the smallest reason. Whatever the case was, the guy seemed less like the guy she was attracted to originally and more like a loser.

When you’re dating a girl, remember that you’re always “the man” in the relationship. After the two of you open up, you may feel comfortable constantly talking about your problems or perhaps even crying in front of her. Don’t do this. Girls hate crybabies. It’s ok if women cry; it’s not ok if you cry. Yes, it’s a double standard, but get over it. If you cry in front of your girlfriend, it better be because a tragedy just occured in your life. It better not be because you feel overwhelmed at work and you are jealous of how much time she spends with some guy friend at work.

The politically correct media tries to act like a lack of communication is the main reason people break up. They’re wrong. If anything, it may be because of too much communication. If you’re feeling sorry for yourself, hold it in. Don’t whine about it to your girlfriend or do it minimally. Always be her protector, her rock. If you start acting like a wuss, your girlfriend will dump you or start cheating on you.