Contrary to popular belief, girls do dig intellectual hunks. It’s just that the female idea of an intelligent male may be different from what you think is intelligent. Being intelligent doesn’t mean that you can do advanced math and physics (book smarts), it’s more of a street smarts sort of thing. It means you make it clear to them that you understand the way things work.

Women aren’t attracted to SAT scores or your college chemistry grade, but they are attracted if you can connect to them on a deeper level. If you make it seem like you ‘get things’ and ‘get them,’ then they will be more willing to open up to you….in various ways.

While it’s hard to fake intelligence, you can definitely fake exoticness. Being ‘exotic’ at least gives you some added appeal…a sort of novelty appeal. A good way is to pretend like you speak a foreign language. If you do in fact speak a foreign language, good for you. But for the rest of us, pretend you are cultured by acting like you know another language.

It’s wise to referain from acting like you speak a common second language, like Spanish or French. It’s better to go for something more unique…more exotic. For example, go with Russian. Just learn a few phrases and basic stuff. There are plenty of places online where you can learn Russian for free.

Learn a little about wines. Have a favorite brand of wine…even if it tastes the exact same as the other cheap shit you buy. Just pretend like you can tell the difference between your favorite type of brand and your standard merlot. Girls love guys that know wine.

Confidence and basic game is always going to be more important than the ‘exotic’ appeal, but going this route certainly won’t hurt you. You just got to do the necessary research and put in the effort to pull it off successfully.