Occasional media attention has been paid to “negging” girls. Mystery, the famed pick-up artist that got his own VH1 show, popularized this method of attracting women.

Negging is just basically teasing the girl. What you are tryign to display when negging girl is both confidence and a sense of humor. The aim isn’t so much to ‘make you look good’ as it is to create a comfortable atmosphere and to get her attention.

Politically correct folk will sometimes bash negging, mainly because they have no idea what it is. Here’s their lame arguments:

1. It doesn’t work………yeah, believe me, it does.

2. It’s anti-women since you are trying to belittle them……very melodramatic. It’s gentle teasing. Negging works best on women with huge egos anyways; the type of girls guys fawn after. These girls are sick of being how told how pretty and great they are. They want someone to tease them a bit and pull their hair in the sack.

3. It’s difficult/impossible to do well……not really, it’s all a matter of how you deliver. You can’t come across as either insecure or mean. You need to come across as both light-hearted and confident.

How Do You Neg?

Negging isn’t insulting a girl….it’s light teasing. The distinction is huge. Insulting a girl will result in a slap or odd look, whereas light teasing can land you in sexy time. Let’s take an example of meeting a girl with dyed blonde hair…but not necessarily totally clear at first that it’s dyed.

Mean insult: Hi. I can’t believe you dyed your hair. You look terrible. So ugly.

Negging: Hi. Did you dye your hair or is that natural?

Girl: It’s dyed.

You: I see. So you have fake hair color. When you wake up in the morning and look yourself in the mirror, do you always think ‘phony?’