Afraid your girlfriend may dump you? I don’t mean that you’re afraid if you don’t commit to/marry her, she may leave you. In that case, the power is ultimately in your court. I’m referring to getting truly dumped; the girl just doesn’t want to date you anymore. She may still want to be ‘just friends.’

Think it’s you don’t spend enough attention on her? Probably not that. Is it because you cheated on her one too many times? Probably not that either, though it’s not wise to do that if you want a healthy long-term relationship.

The number one reason guys get dumped by their girlfriends is because they start acting like sissies. At the beginning, the girl was attracted to the guy because she found him to be confident and reassuring. She was attracted to him. However, over time, the guy started to seem ‘weaker’ to her. Perhaps he got too needy or perhaps he got jealous over the smallest reason. Whatever the case was, the guy seemed less like the guy she was attracted to originally and more like a loser.

When you’re dating a girl, remember that you’re always “the man” in the relationship. After the two of you open up, you may feel comfortable constantly talking about your problems or perhaps even crying in front of her. Don’t do this. Girls hate crybabies. It’s ok if women cry; it’s not ok if you cry. Yes, it’s a double standard, but get over it. If you cry in front of your girlfriend, it better be because a tragedy just occured in your life. It better not be because you feel overwhelmed at work and you are jealous of how much time she spends with some guy friend at work.

The politically correct media tries to act like a lack of communication is the main reason people break up. They’re wrong. If anything, it may be because of too much communication. If you’re feeling sorry for yourself, hold it in. Don’t whine about it to your girlfriend or do it minimally. Always be her protector, her rock. If you start acting like a wuss, your girlfriend will dump you or start cheating on you.