The worst possible dating mistake a guy can make is to show fear. Essentially, the last thing you want to do is act like you are not good enough for the girl. If you check out other dating advice portals, you’ll see that many agree that this is the biggest, most common dating mistake guys make.

When you act timid around a girl, act like you don’t deserve to be on a date with her, she will be able to sense it. Women take their lead from men. So if you think you don’t deserve her, she will think so too. If you act as if you are the ‘catch,’ like she should try to impress you, you will be much more successful with her. She will try to impress you; you will be the one with the power. If you act as if you must impress her, then she will wonder why she is talking to you on the first place.

This dating mistake is not something you do or say literally, it is all in the way you act. If you act unconfident and timid, she will be able to sense it. It is the epitome of ‘it’s not what you say, it is how you say it.’

Building confidence is not something that happens overnight. You can’t just give yourself a pep talk in the mirror and expect to date the Angelina Jolies of the world. It is a gradual process. But remember, it is all mental.

There is no confidence diety or confidence judge that tells you how much confidence you should have. There is no almighty judge that determines if you are good enough for a girl. It is all in your head. It is an emotion and cognitive thought that can be controlled. So while this sort of confidence is not something you can snap your fingers and have instantly, it is something that you can learn to build. It is like building muscles, except in this case, anyone can do it if they put their mind to it.